From Achievement to Alignment
We chase goals. We build. We celebrate milestones. But what if hitting the goal still leaves you hollow? That’s because achievement without alignment becomes a hollow victory. In Shine, we talk about the inner world — the foundational truth that if your outer wins don’t match your inner world, you’ll feel it.
When your ambition drives you, you can hit targets while your soul whispers: “Is this me?” The question then shifts from What have I done? to Who am I doing it for? Realignment means choosing the next move because it fits your inner compass — not because it’s what you ought to do.
Here’s your practice. On a blank page write two columns: “Outer Wins” and “Inner Truths”. Under Outer Wins list the last five big successes. Under Inner Truths list how you felt during each. Honest feelings. Whatever arose. Then ask: which wins aligned with how you feel when you’re fully yourself? Which ones didn’t? Highlight the mismatches.
Next: pick one upcoming goal. Before you commit, pause and ask: “How will this serve my inner truth?” If you can’t point to a feeling of alignment, hold off or redesign it. Alignment is not soft. It’s smart. Because when your inner world matches your outer world, you show up whole-hearted. Your people sense it. Your clients feel it. Your decisions become less about proving and more about being. And when being leads, results follow – sustainably and meaningfully.
Need support? On the podcast Shed and Shine Episode 67, The Power of Focus: Cut Distractions & Maximize Your Productivity, we walk through how “Say No Often” and “Prepare Every Night” feed alignment.
Stop measuring life by metrics alone. Measure it by meaning and feel. That’s where real freedom lives.
Stay Focused,
Gino